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Mar. 28th, 2008 12:04 pmIt is apparently Blog Against Torture day, and I'm not just bringing that up because my parents are on their way here.
In the big picture, I am so incredibly disapppointed in my species and my country. I keep hoping we'll grow up and be better than we are, because I still believe we're capable of it, but lately it's been one step forward, one decade back. )-: There are so many things to be said about this, and so many people who are capable of saying it so much better than I.
In the little picture, it is so easy to be thoughtlessly cruel to the people around you, both those you know and those you don't. I don't know if it's the economy or the state of the world but people seem ruder each day, and that just perpetuates rudeness further down. Little stuff adds up, but that's a two-way street. So take time to pay attention to the strangers and friends and lovers in your life. Hold the door for people behind you, especially if they are carrying heavy things. Say thank you when someone holds the door for you. Leave decent tips. Don't drive like a dickhead; it's not a race and you don't get "points" for each car you manage to get in front of. Be just as diligent, if not more so, in passing on compliments as criticisms -- we all earn plenty of both, but rarely do we bother to acknowledge the positive in others. Hug your children and tell them you love them. Smile at people (but not in a creepy stalker way!) Stop hurting, hitting, killing each other -- there's no reason for any of that that's not fundamentally stupid. For fuck's sake, try to care about each other and show some empathy, okay? I care about you all and most of you are breaking my heart.
In the big picture, I am so incredibly disapppointed in my species and my country. I keep hoping we'll grow up and be better than we are, because I still believe we're capable of it, but lately it's been one step forward, one decade back. )-: There are so many things to be said about this, and so many people who are capable of saying it so much better than I.
In the little picture, it is so easy to be thoughtlessly cruel to the people around you, both those you know and those you don't. I don't know if it's the economy or the state of the world but people seem ruder each day, and that just perpetuates rudeness further down. Little stuff adds up, but that's a two-way street. So take time to pay attention to the strangers and friends and lovers in your life. Hold the door for people behind you, especially if they are carrying heavy things. Say thank you when someone holds the door for you. Leave decent tips. Don't drive like a dickhead; it's not a race and you don't get "points" for each car you manage to get in front of. Be just as diligent, if not more so, in passing on compliments as criticisms -- we all earn plenty of both, but rarely do we bother to acknowledge the positive in others. Hug your children and tell them you love them. Smile at people (but not in a creepy stalker way!) Stop hurting, hitting, killing each other -- there's no reason for any of that that's not fundamentally stupid. For fuck's sake, try to care about each other and show some empathy, okay? I care about you all and most of you are breaking my heart.